Everyone senses that aromatic candles are relaxing and essentially, beautiful and spiritual.
When two lovers get together, soft light, beautiful, subtle scent and romantic music offer a secret, personalized atmosphere.
Below, a list of essential oils from a source book "Essential Aromatherapy" by Carole McGilvery and Jimi Reed offer some guidelines for seduction with scent.
Share a romantic bath by candlelight. Though men dislike geranium in the tub,add the relaxing, cleanly qualities of rose-geranium essential oil to several scents: rosemary, sharp, powerfullemongrass, and a drop of lavender.
I mix mine with non-scented glycerine liquid soap and the scent is like Irish Spring. Lavender is supposed to be an anaphrodisiac ( the opposite of a love-potion!) but, when men wear lavender in their cologne, nothing can stop me from being seduced and stimulated. (Actually, nothing can stop me anyway!)
Employ your compassionate sensibilities in offering sensual or essential massage ( try working gently on upper thighs and the backs of the knees rather than hitting the erotic zones right away, ) Orange oil is extremely nice worked into lower tummy (not private parts) and breast tissue. Your male mate won't object to the scent. NEVER use grapefruit oil on genitals or underarms. Brrr! It burns!!
Rule #1: Clary sage is slightly intoxicating, but too much will inhibit sex drive.
Rule #2: NEVER EVER use giant gallons of patchouli. I like to add patchouli to wax and then glaze pressed flowers into candles with it. Patchouli is deep scent.
Rule #3: "Ylang-Ylang is helpful for impotence or frigidity." Always explore the wondrous possibilities in natural stimulants, but also ALWAYS ask for concerned medical advice. There are invariably medical foundations to sensory inhibition.
Rule #4: In our fairy-tale, chiffon , glamour world- our stud always brings us roses on Valentines Day. If he forgot or bought a giant purple onion flower, rose is still an exquisite scent to spray around the baseboards. Use Aromatherapy Essential oil, or rose water from the IDA.
Dropping either 15 drops of rose essential or an inch of rosewater into a floral spray container, top with 1 1/2 cups of warm water. Spray fully around the room onto baseboards. This readily inhibits crawlies from entering and hence enhances your blossed bed and divine troth.
Don't forget that rose can make your eyes feel like crying so don't stick it liberally near your faces. If you massage with oils, orange oil with rose used on the feet and hands is very powerful and beautiful. If you have massaged hands with it wash them before foreplay.
10 drops Rosemary essential oil
8 drops lemongrass essential oil
2 drops of Rose-Geranium essential oil
1 - 2 drops of Lavender essential oil.
Just mix oil drops with a pint container of unscented vegetable glycerine liquid soap. One may find supplies in a Health Food Store. Shake the ingredients together. Delightful.
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